I have not written, as I was awakened at 3:40 a.m. on June 28th by the local sheriff who informed me that my brother had been the victim of a hit and run while riding his bike to work. He was flown to the closest local trauma unit. I have been dealing with police, medical professionals, reporters, all my brother’s financial affairs, and communicating with friends and family because I am the next of kin. My other brother has tried to do what he can to help, but he is on the other coast in California. At the same time, my stepfather appears to have had a minor stroke and has deteriorated quite rapidly over the last month. He is 90-years old. My stepsister has been very involved with helping out with all of that. Between the two crises, I’ve reached my limits on physical, mental, and emotional exhaustion. Both are still alive, but I fear my stepfather whom I call Pops will not survive. My brother will survive but may have some permanent disabilities due to head injuries. I am resting this week (I hope) and will write more.
Twin Crises
Oh, I am so sorry to hear about this. My heart goes out to you and your family.
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Thanks, Gigi. David went to the ER again today, and we have had to start hospice care.
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I am so sorry Connie…Be sure to take advantage of all of the services that hospice offers especially those for the family.
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Thank you for reminding me of that, Jane. I will do that for sure.
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I am so sorry to read this. What a huge amount of trauma you have been through recently. I really hope your brother makes the best possible recovery.
Take time for yourself whenever you can. Resting is good!! Sending you much love and virtual hugs.
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Much Love to you also and Virtual Hugs!
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Much Love and Hugs to you also! ❤
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